{"id":181,"date":"2016-11-15T23:58:59","date_gmt":"2016-11-16T04:58:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/?p=181"},"modified":"2016-11-15T23:58:59","modified_gmt":"2016-11-16T04:58:59","slug":"how-to-be-an-other-woman-and-stories-that-teach-mistrust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/uncategorized\/how-to-be-an-other-woman-and-stories-that-teach-mistrust\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cHow to Be an Other Woman\u201d and Stories that Teach Mistrust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-184\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/files\/2016\/11\/000-300x282.png\" alt=\"000\" width=\"300\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/files\/2016\/11\/000-300x282.png 300w, https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/files\/2016\/11\/000-768x722.png 768w, https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/files\/2016\/11\/000-319x300.png 319w, https:\/\/sites.williams.edu\/engl-209-fall16\/files\/2016\/11\/000.png 1006w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There is something to be learned from textbooks.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>At the end of a chapter, if you were paying any attention, you will have read something discrete\u2013 pieces of information that you can synthesize and summarize into a single declarative: \u201cI read about partial fraction decompositions\u201d or \u201cthe life cycle of ferns\u201d or \u201cthe Trail of Tears,\u201d and this short and sweet encapsulation feels satisfying to possess.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You can prove you\u2019ve read about something because it is finite in scope as an event or theorem.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But more than once I\u2019ve been stumped by the question \u201cwhat is it about?\u201d when asked for my favorite book or recommendation to read on a plane, or when just talking about a novel in conversation. <i>What is it about?<\/i> I can tell you why I like it and think it\u2019s worthwhile, who it\u2019s by and her other works, the themes and the characters and the plot. But was that what it was about, or was it just the matrix in which whatever it was <i>about <\/i>took shape? Professors and teachers of English assign works of literature for the same purpose that teachers of other disciplines assign textbooks: there is something instructive, something to be gleaned.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>So, surely, we must be able to say what we\u2019ve read at the end of a story.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019m going to illustrate the complexity of addressing this task for a particular piece of writing, \u201cHow to be An Other Woman\u201d by Lorrie Moore to show how, unlike textbook writing, literary truths are shaky when the whole meaning of stories in literature can shift in a single phrase.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> There are select occasions when assessing the truthfulness of a story is meaningful at all.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Only in the cases of biography or genres where we expect accounts accurate to reality, as in science textbooks or newspaper articles, and in these we are explicitly told as a feature of genre that the portrayals are true. The brunt of the content in these works is statements, which can be externally cross-referenced to verify or debunk. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Creative fiction cannot be assessed in this same sense. Prior to J.L. Austin\u2019s work, the common belief among linguists was that statements could be defined as any utterance that could be proven true or false; Austin in <i>How to Do Things with Words <\/i>establishes a category of utterance which, although conventionally designated as statements, didn\u2019t in fact have strict boolean values, which he termed \u201cperformative\u201d speech acts (6).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Statements such as \u201cI now pronounce you man and wife,\u201d \u201cI order you to stand,\u201d and \u201cI name the child Charles,\u201d can either be \u201chappy\u201d or \u201cunhappy\u201d depending on the \u201cfelicity\u201d of the conditions in which they\u2019re uttered; conditions for \u201cfelicity\u201d are unique to the utterance, but typically require a speaker imbued with requisite authority (a doctor has not the credentials to marry), and certain appropriate circumstances (one cannot really order someone already standing to stand, nor name a child Charles when the object to be named is a dog) (14).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Performative speech acts are by nature metalinguistic utterances which declare the actions they themselves currently perform.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> \u201cHow to Be an Other Women\u201d is a story which we can treat as something like a performative speech act. Told in the second person as a series of imperatives, the story is framed as a step-by-step guide on how to be a mistress, but not in generalities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201c<i>What weather,\u201d you hear him sigh, faintly British or uppercrust Delaware.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Glance up. Say: \u201cIt is fit for neither beast nor vegetable.\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>It sounds dumb. It makes no sense.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>But it is how you meet.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You the reader are conducted through the story as Charlene, a young woman, college graduate yet menial secretary, who falls in love with and has an affair with a married man. The instructions (authorial? divine?) which form the body of the story are at the same time dealt as they are enacted by \u201cyou\u201d (3).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You are reading <i>Madame Bovary <\/i>on a bus; \u201cReturn to your book. Emma is opening her window, thinking of Rouen\u201d (4). The simultaneous declaration of the action and its treatment as \u2018having happened\u2019 or \u2018happening\u2019 in the story constitutes performative acts; similarly, the \u201cyou\u201d of the text represents both you the reader and you Charlene\u2013 meaning there can be no boolean value to the question \u201care you Charlene?\u201d since it is simultaneously false and true. The story is an experience of your life lived in real-time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> If veracity were key, this story would have no merit because we know the \u201cyou\u201d of the text cannot possibly be referencing us, since in our real lives we\u2019re reading the story.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The relationship to the reader is a peculiar one in which the very act of reading enacts a series of imperatives that unfolds the story before you; to read the story makes it true. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> In the cases of science or history papers, logical argument and fact are surface-level information. This type of knowledge is what is readily available\u2013the happenstance of an event, the formula of a chemical compound.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>While not necessarily easily intelligible, meaning here isn\u2019t veiled from view.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But stories have no obligation to tell you what the truth is explicitly nor implicitly.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Even in the most overt example of parable, where the intention is to clearly illustrate a moral, the meaning of something as digestible as Aesop\u2019s \u201cThe Tortoise and The Hare\u201d has been lost. Originally, Hare\u2019s hubris is what lead to his defeat, napping after seeing Slow and Steady (the tortoise) so far behind.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But over the years, the line \u201cSlow and Steady wins the race\u201d has assumed the role of moral, converting \u201cSlow and Steady\u201d from a proper noun to an ascription of virtues. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Because knowledge is coded, each piece throughout a story is not necessarily recognizable by the same reader; Charlene quips that \u201cthe unexamined fly is not worth zipping,\u201d a pun which can only be understood if the reader is familiar with Socrates\u2019 \u201cthe unexamined life is not worth living\u201d (10). And such knowledge or truths can range from something as frivolous as a pun to the entire meaning of the story.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Our story is replete with references to the insecurity of an \u201cother woman\u2019s\u201d identity.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You \u201cphilosophize,\u201d declaring, \u201cyou are a mistress\u2026 part of a great historical tradition\u201d that normalizes your degradation and even esteems it (16). You \u201cwonder who you are,\u201d \u201cgaz[ing] into the mirror at a face that looks too puffy to be yours,\u201d \u201cthen look quickly away, like a woman, some other woman, who is losing her mind\u201d (8, 12).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In defining yourself an \u201cother woman,\u201d your identity is shaped completely by what you aren\u2019t: his wife\u2013<i>the<\/i> woman. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> So when in the penultimate page you discover that all along the woman he convinced you is his wife is actually a mistress herself, it becomes evident that there is no way to know the truth in this story; \u201cPatricia is not his wife. He is separated from his wife; her name is Carrie\u2026 Patricia is the woman he lives with\u201d (21).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Whatever sense of identity you felt by having a set category as \u201cother\u201d is now meaningless. Already you were living the lie of a mistress, wherein your very existence is a subject to be hidden and denied.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You are an other woman in an ignominious line of other women. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> At the same time, you are confounded by the identity of the man you love.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>What little you did know of him, what little he shared of his \u201cdust, eat, bicker\u201d relationship with his so-called wife were lies. He is suddenly remote and foreign, asserting in his defense that what he has \u201calways admired about you is your strength, your independence,\u201d so trite and meaningless a line, a canned phrase that reeks of use and reuse (21). Yet in some ways you are \u201cother\u201d as in exceptional; you know of Patricia while she seems to have no knowledge about you; months later he still \u201ccalls you occasionally at the office to ask how you are\u201d (18, 22).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You still answer his calls.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Your relationship and your identity remain ambiguous.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Logician Charles Pierce argued that \u201cpictures alone can never convey the slightest information\u2026 it leaves the spectator uncertain whether it is a copy of something actually existing or a mere play of fancy\u201d (7).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We must treat literature like a picture. Because it has no necessary binding to some real world analog, seeing any one word appear in the text means nothing by itself. Each subsequent sentence can complicate or negate something previous. We think we\u2019ve found out how to be an other woman, that \u201cit essentially means to put your shoes on the wrong feet,\u201d that \u201cit is like constantly having a book out from the library\u201d (5). To be a mistress is to be something as awkward and unnatural as misfitted shoes, as out of place as an overdue library book\u2013an error to be righted as soon as he comes to his senses. Being an other woman involves constant paranoia, obsession, and ultimately settlement for whatever scraps you can scrounge; \u201cOn the street, all over, you think you see her\u2026 Every woman is her. [But] remember what Mrs. Kloosterman told the class in second grade: Just be glad you have legs\u201d (12, 13). But our truths crumble when confronted with an incompatible reality, when our understanding of \u201cother\u201d is revealed to have been erroneous all along, and the tenuous means of coping on which we had come to rely is rendered useless.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> The conclusion is a form of twist-ending tantamount to the adventure in \u201cA Wizard of Oz\u201d all being a vivid dream. An abrupt and story-altering end revelation is a common trope in film and literature, including \u201cShutter Island,\u201d in which events are revealed to have been a ploy to remedy the insane protagonist, or Yann Martel\u2019s <i>Beatrice and Virgil<\/i> which in the final pages emerges as an allegory for the Holocaust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"> So we find that literary truths can be unstable.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>While its title has us believe we\u2019ll emerge from the other side having learned, the story sets up our beliefs in order to knock them down. \u201cHow to Be an Other Woman\u201d embodies literary instability by turning the truth on its head, leaving us to answer our original query: <i>what was it about? <\/i>with the reality of finding more questions than answers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Works Consulted<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Aesop. &#8220;Story Arts | Aesop&#8217;s ABC | The Tortoise and The Hare.&#8221; Story Arts | Aesop&#8217;s ABC | The Tortoise and The Hare. Story Arts, n.d. Web. 15 Nov. 2016.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Austin, J. L. <i>How to Do Things with Words<\/i>. Cambridge: Harvard UP, 1962. Print.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Moore, Lorrie. &#8220;How to Be an Other Woman.&#8221; Self Help. New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1985.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Print.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Peirce, Charles. Peirce Edition Project, ed. 1998. &#8220;What is a sign?&#8221; and &#8220;Of Reasoning in General,&#8221; in The Essential Peirce: Selected Philosophical Writings, Volume 2. 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